Duck Dynasty and “Happy Blacks”

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While Phil Robertson’s comments concerning the LGBT community have been the talk in Christian circles, I have been perplexed at the lack of discussion concerning his remarks about African-Americans.

To me, this is the equivalent as someone walking up to a married couple and saying, “You’re car is piece of junk and your wife is fat and ugly!” Then the husband exclaims, “Don’t you call my car a piece of junk!”

Then the wife looks at him and says, “Wait, is that all you have to say? I thought you love me, but you never defend me when someone insults ME!”

Therefore, I was so glad to read the article below by JEMAR TISBY.

Duck Dynasty and “Happy Blacks”.

This Is Why There’s No White Jesus or White Santa Claus In My House

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I am sure some thought I was overreacting and just “playing the race card” when I posted HERE about the History Channel’s remake of The Bible. Those powers that be seemed to make the devil look just like President Obama, but the actor who played Jesus looked handsome and pretty much stayed true to the traditional image of Jesus.

Because you know, we all know exactly what Jesus looked like right? The people here on Fox News know:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUYpu8yolLw

I think Jack Wellman at Patheos.com summed it up quite well:

“Time and time again, the New Testament records that Jesus slipped away into the crowds and that the religious officials, when looking for Him, frequently couldn’t find Him?  Why was this so?  Because Jesus must have looked much like any other rabbi of the day with a robe yes, but not with the long hair that we think He wore.  There are dozens of accounts where Jesus simply slipped away and blended into the crowds:

John 5:13 “Now the man who had been healed did not know who it was, for Jesus had withdrawn, as there was a crowd in the place.” 

Luke 4:30 “but he slipped away through the crowd and left them.”

John 7:11 “The Jews were looking for him at the feast, and saying, “Where is he?”

John 11:56 “They were looking for Jesus and saying to one another as they stood in the temple, “What do you think? That he will not come to the feast at all?”

If Jesus had a long, white flowing robe and He had long hair, He would have been easy to spot, since historical accounts show that the Jews in Jesus’ day had short hair. He likely had a beard but so did many of the Jewish men in that day.   There is every indication that Jesus was hard to pick out of a crowd but when He wanted to be seen, He was able to make Himself visible.”

Now, I’ve had many conversations with non-Christians and fellow Christians about the importance of images, including the portrayal of Jesus as a long blond-haired effeminate white male. The common retort is, “Well, it really doesn’t matter and it’s not a big deal.” To which my response is, “If it’s not a big deal, why have I never seen any other image of Jesus in white churches, at white-church Christmas plays, or in movies/TV shows?” Even Mel Gibson, who received all types of accolades for his historically accurate portrayal of the final days of Christ’s life in the Passion Of The Christ, made sure that Jesus still had a European look, despite the fact that other biblical characters did have North African facial features (I guess we should be happy for small steps).

So if it doesn’t matter, why does is this image still being persistently used by people who claim to be champions of the truth? My point is, if it doesn’t matter, then every Christmas play, Christmas/Jesus movie, etc. should reflect the population that it’s trying to reach. The fact is, that it does not, because if you’re at a black Christmas play and they had a black-Jesus, the first thing most people would think is, “That’s not Jesus!”

Really?

Oh, and don’t get me started on so-called  Santa Claus. If you want to say that Saint Nicholas was “white”, go ahead. Just remember that Ole Saint Nick was born a Greek in the 3rd century, near the Mediterranean sea. So he likely had a skin color that was much darker than this:

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So does it matter? I don’t know. It surely seems to matter to Megyn Kelly of Fox (and the others that sat there and didn’t challenge her statement). So it matters so much that people think you’re being PC and get upset if you say Jesus and that fictional character are upholding a standard of white beauty and not accurate history, then yes, it matters.

I’m just glad somebody was stupid enough to say as much on national TV.

Maybe I just have a problem. Too much Good Times when I was younger has changed my way of thinking…

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The 2015 Ford Mustang Has Been Unwrapped – What Do You Think?

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Hot off the press CornerstoneDads and right in time for your mid-life “crisis” (at least for some of us).

Looks like the spy photos over the last year were pretty much spot on.

What do you think?

Head on over to Car and Driver for all of the juicy details:

http://www.caranddriver.com/features/2015-ford-mustang-leaked-360-view-and-full-details-news

and Ford.com for the official news: http://www.ford.com/cars/mustang/2015//

Too much change?

Too little change?

Let us know!

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CSD’s Bank Account = 0; Floyd Mayweather Only Has One Bank Account, And There’s $123 Million In It

You know what I just got done doing this Saturday morning? I’ll tell you.

Going through the ultimate uncomfortable exercise of budget-balancing with my paycheck. To add extra hot sauce into the mix, my wife and I (because our money is our money, not his/her money) we did it with our two oldest sitting at the table.

Why?

So they learn many important things such as cooperation, negotiation, being humble (because the Stang could use parts over the kids needing a new textbook right guys?), that I do not work for free nor do we have the liberty to spend without knowing where it goes, and the sacrifices that we are making to live off of one income, etc..

Of course, we just really hope they learn how to handle money wisely as no one ever taught me.

In the end, this is never comfortable, depressing, and we end thinking, “Will we ever be able to just enjoy a “few luxuries” that other people enjoy without breaking the budget?”

But you know, my mouth dropped when I read the blog post below about 30 minutes after our meeting.

Money sure isn’t everything and I don’t know if I’d want to get my brains beat-out to make it, but WOW.

When I’m seeing the crazy reality-show stars or some other “celebrity” that seems to have never-ending stacks, I look at my wife and say, “So why did I go to college and get a degree?”

Oh, and I still owe up to my neck for that decision to add insult to that injury as well.

Also, just because you have the ability to make it, doesn’t mean you have the brains to use and keep it.

In the meantime, I’ll keep remembering the following verse:

Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said,

“Never will I leave you;
    never will I forsake you.”

Hebrews 13:5

BRITAIN BOXING

Floyd Mayweather loves money, which is good, because he has lots of it.

The champion boxer, who has never been afraid to flaunt his fortune, was at one point the highest earning athlete in the world, bringing in $85 million in winnings alone.

And with all that dough, you’d think Mayweather might want to spread his assets across a few accounts. Perhaps stash it in different banks and/or different accounts. You know, just in case.

Mayweather, however, doesn’t think that way.

In an excellent profile of the 36-year-old prizefighter in ESPN The Magazine, Tim Keown discovered just how many bank accounts Mayweather has — one.

That’s right, Mayweather keeps his fortune in a single account. Below is Keown’s reaction to seeing one of Mayweather’s bank slips.

I look up to see Floyd smiling. He begins to laugh. I say something unintelligible about too many numbers. I’m not sure what prompted this. Perhaps he mistook my look of fatigue for disapproval? Given his spending habits, is he concerned with pre-empting the inevitable talk that he will end up broke? Or is it simply one more example of the man’s hubris? I look down one more time to make sure I got it right. And yes, it’s right there, 11 numbers long.

There is more than $123 million in Floyd Mayweather Jr.’s bank account.

He nods, folds the slip and says, “One account, baby.”

This doesn’t seem like the greatest idea, but in Mayweather’s defense, he’s earned his money so he can do whatever he wants with it. And according to recent reports, his fortune is about to get a whole lot bigger.

Taken from: http://www.thepostgame.com/blog/dish/201309/floyd-mayweather-only-has-one-bank-account-and-its-got-123-million-it

CSD Fantasy Football League: Pre-Season Hype

Finally we have some players in the CSD Fantasy Football League!

I hope this is a great way to have fun with the kids and add some new spice when you are all watching the game.

Below is a listing of how the first six rounds played out, the teams and how Yahoo graded their draft picks. Unfortunately, I know the Baldhead Slicks, The Crushers and The Best Team didn’t participate in the draft because their dad committed to playing softball just before the draft date, so he had a game (okay, that was me).

Way to go dad, way to go…

So my kids learned already that sometimes, you’re a victim of things you just can’t control. You know, like the Lakers not getting Chris Paul because of David Stern.

Best wishes teams! May you all play hard, but I hope the Bald-one gets bragging rights in the end.

Signed,

The Commish – BaldHeadSlick

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League and Draft Report Card

 

CSD Dinner Table Topic of the Day: College, Student Loans and 21st Century Sharecropping

Definition of SHARECROPPER

: a tenant farmer especially in the southern United States who is provided with credit for seed, tools, living quarters, and food, who works the land, and who receives an agreed share of the value of the crop minus charges
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sharecropper
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When I graduated high school, I remember people who didn’t go to college saying, “I know people with college degrees that make less than I do and I didn’t go to college!”

Now, I’ll be one of the folks telling high school grads, “I went to college and got a degree and I make more money than average, but I’m still poorer than most people who didn’t go to college!”

“Under this system, black families would rent small plots of land, or shares, to work themselves; in return, they would give a portion of their crop to the landowner at the end of the year.

The sharecropping system also locked much of the South into a reliance on cotton, just at the time when the price for cotton was falling. In addition, while sharecropping gave African-Americans autonomy in their daily work and social lives, and freed them from the gang-labor system that had dominated during the slavery era, it often resulted in sharecroppers owing more to the landowner (for the use of tools and other supplies, for example) than they were able to repay. Some blacks managed to acquire enough money to move from sharecropping to renting or owning land by the end of the 1860s, but many more went into debt or were forced by poverty or the threat of violence to sign unfair and exploitative sharecropping or labor contracts that left them little hope of improving their situation.”

Source: http://www.history.com/topics/sharecropping

At the current rate, over the next few decades, we will likely return back to a time when only the affluent can afford a college education and those who previously had earned a college degree, will not be able to afford to send their own children to school and will be paying student loan payments out of their social-security checks.

“Forget hitting the books son, better go dribble that basketball or throw that football to get a scholarship!”

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Oh, and before someone comments, “Well, if you can’t afford to pay for a college degree, then you shouldn’t get a loan to pay for one!”

As a Dave Ramsey fan, I agree.

So surely you don’t have any credit cards, a car note or a mortgage right? Because if you can’t pay cash for a house, then why should you feel entitled to get a loan to buy a home. After all, the amount many owe in student loan debt equals what they would pay for a home.

Also, I’ll agree more with that statement when our student loan debt is seen as “too big to fail” like the banks that loaned the money, and maybe it can just be wiped off the books.

…just like the folks that walked away from their houses when they bought more than they should have when those loans were flowing like water.

Quite honestly, college is still the best option for the young and old. However, my gripe is with the “wisdom” that getting the education is a guarantee to a great paying job, home ownership, and “you’ll make much more money than your peers that didn’t go to college over your lifetime.”

Well, none of those are absolute truths.

But you better be absolutely sure what you want to major in, how much does it pay in the end and know exactly what you can pay off. Because while the banks that loaned you the money are too big to fail, you aren’t…and you can’t file bankruptcy on student loan debt like they can!

Check out this article from blog.metrotrends.org

With national student loan debt of roughly $1 trillion, it’s no surprise that many Americans are worried about their student loans.

Student loan debt has surpassed credit card debt and is second only to mortgage debt among those age 29-37. This ballooning student loan debt is a contributor to the “lost generation” of 20- and 30-somethings, whose average wealth is lower than the average wealth of those in their 20s and 30s three decades ago.

We published a new brief on school-related debt, using the FINRA Investor Educational Foundation’s 2012 National Financial Capability Survey. One in five adults age 20 and older has school-related debt and concern about the ability to repay is pervasive. The majority of student debt holders (57 percent) is worried that they may be unable to repay that debt.

If Congress doesn’t reach a compromise and the rate of subsidized student loans doubles, student loan debt and the increased payment burden will increase stress around repayment.

Beyond the short-term burden of repaying loan balances and interest, this early debt can have ripple effects and hinder borrowers’ ability to get on a secure wealth-building path. It can delay building a rainy day fund, homeownership, and saving for retirement.

Some of our findings may not be shocking to those who write monthly checks to Sallie Mae, yet they illustrate the magnitude and pervasiveness of the issue:

  • Student loan debt affects people at all levels of educational attainment. Nine percent of those with just high school diplomas have school-related debt, possibly incurred for non-degree training or to fund a child’s education. Twenty-five percent of those with some college education but no degree have student loans.
  • Student loan debt disproportionately affects African Americans and Hispanics. African Americans and Hispanics are twice as likely to have student loan debt as compared with whites. The large racial wealth gap and lower wealth among families of color likely lead these students to more often turn to student loans to finance their education.
  • Student loan debt affects people at nearly all income levels. Twenty percent of those in households with annual incomes under $25,000 have student loans—that’s only 2 percent more than those earning $100,000 and up.
  • Concern about repaying student loan debt also cuts across economic and demographic groups (see figure below). Nearly three-fourths of those with incomes less than $25,000 are concerned about their ability to repay—and so is a still-substantial 36 percent of those earning above $100,000.

College is a good investment for those able to complete the degree, but roughly half of people do not. Out of the starting gate, students should consider the cost and completion rate at the institution they plan to attend, earnings in their field of study, and type of student loan (public or private). Helping young people take advantage of student loans to get their degrees—but avoid burying themselves in debt—is a step in the right direction toward economic stability and wealth accumulation.

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Illustration by Daniel Wolfe / The Urban Institute.

 

CSD Dinner Table Topic: The Real Madness In March – When Players Step Off The Court, Should Colleges Step Up?

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I love NPR’s Tell Me More.

This time, I have to just post this segment by host Michel Martin because she brought the heat, dropped the mic and walked off the stage!

Well said Michel!

Read her segment (or listen here) and let me know what you think in the comments section below.

 

When Players Step Off The Court, Should Colleges Step Up?

by Michel Martin

“Finally today, I have to say something about Kevin Ware — the Louisville basketball player who suffered a gruesome injury during an NCAA tournament win against Duke last Sunday.

You don’t need to have seen the injury itself — a compound fracture of the right tibia — to know that it was awful. All you have to do is look at the faces of the young men on both teams, many of them tearful and filled with shock. Thankfully Kevin Ware seems to have gotten appropriate medical attention then; he’s getting a lot of emotional support now. He seems to be both positive and tough, which is something you need in a situation like this. And it seems entirely possible that he will play again, and at a high level.

But as we wish him well, let’s take a moment to ponder what happens if he does NOT play again, either because he can’t or because he doesn’t want to. What happens to all the love from fellow students, University officials, and the basketball program?

Can I Just Tell You, that is why it is as good a time as any to revisit the question of how colleges treat so-called student athletes, and what exactly many of the players get out of the whole deal. And we’re not talking about the shocking video of the Rutgers University coach cursing and physically abusing his team. That’s a whole other conversation.

No, we’re focusing on the ongoing scandal in big time college sports that the players who power these teams and who bring people not only to games but to their campuses too often get too little out of the experience.

Now many say that these kids are getting a college education. But, come on, we know too many are not. This year’s annual survey of college graduation rates — conducted by the University of Central Florida’s Institute for Diversity and Ethics In Sport — DID show improvement from years past, especially for African American male basketball players. The graduation rate for them was 65% on average —which is actually BETTER than for black male college students over all. But that still compares to 90% among white players…and for some colleges, the actuall number is a miserable 25 or 30%. And let’s not forget how many kids are tripped up over NCAA violations for things like selling autographs to get pizza money.

Let’s also talk about what it takes to graduate. For example, the team Louisville defeated Sunday after Ware’s terrible injury, the Duke Blue Devils, regularly manages to graduate most and often ALL of its elite athletes — black and white and male and female. But we don’t often think about what those athletes endure to get there

In an interview with the Blue Zone, a blog that follows Blue Devil Sports, former Blue Devil Brian Zoubek talked about that. Zoubek, a member of the 2010 national championship team and a history major, had tweeted to question why the previous Sunday’s game against Creighton — another school with a strong graduation record — had to start at 9:40 pm.

Why does that matter? It matters, he said, because it meant the game ended at midnight, followed by 30 minutes of mandatory media availability. And that meant that the team would not leave Philadelphia until around 1:30 am, and would not arrive back on campus until after 4:00 am.

Zoubek said that those who think the Duke students would just forget about class have it exactly wrong. He said they WOULD go to class on Monday and Tuesday, because those are the only days they would be able to go. And that’s why — he said — students often end the season exhausted, stressed and physically spent. He added in a tweet: “It’s not about money at all right? What a joke.”

This is not a brief for paying student athletes — there are in fact other ideas. One Florida professor suggested allowing them to major in their sport in the same way student actors and musicians can major in their professional interests. But it is simply to say that if we REALLY care about the kids who provide us with so many exciting moments, and examples of courage, character and strength, our support can’t end when they leave the court, whether on a stretcher or their own two feet.”

Source: http://www.npr.org/2013/04/03/176130225/should-colleges-support-players-off-the-court-too

“The Bible” On History Channel – You Won’t Confuse Jesus For Osama Bin Laden, But You Might Confuse The POTUS As The Devil

Wow.

When I brought up the hidden race-game that I thought was being played in History Channel’s The Bible (read here), I did not see this one coming.

Seems like the series is also taking heat now because the Devil in The Bible tends to have a striking resemblance to, well…

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Hey, I’m just saying.

While I’m not in Hollywood, but I have slept in a Holiday Inn Express before, I know NOTHING happens by mistake when making a film. Everything from where people stand, to what they look like, what they say, how many times they say it and to who they say it to is all controlled…and that’s to name just a few areas.

Now my wife, and in full disclosure she is not of a darker-skinned people group, noted that it’s interesting that the devil even favors anyone “black”, when there’s no making that mistake with Jesus! Let me go as far as to say (my apology, Jesus doesn’t have blond hair), I think Jesus resembles one Brad Pitt a little bit!

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However, one thing’s for sure.

Nobody’s confusing Jesus for another guy who was from that part of the world:

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I don’t think, and I could be wrong, that had the Jesus character resembled old-boy up above, that no one would not have noticed.

I’m yet to watch episode #3, but early word on the street is that the enthusiasm of many Christians about the mini-series is declining. The unnecessary violence, loose interpretation of scripture and lack of context is causing a bit of a backlash.

May I also mention, the racial overtones as well may make me turn off.

Fox News reports, “The couple behind the show, Mark Burnett and Roma Downey, dismissed what they called “foolish” reports that their show’s villain looked like the President.

“This is utter nonsense. The actor who played Satan, Mehdi Ouzaani, is a highly acclaimed Moroccan actor,” they said in a statement sent to FOX 411. “He has previously played parts in several Biblical epics– including Satanic characters long before Barack Obama was elected as our President.”

Downey added: “Both Mark and I have nothing but respect and love our President, who is a fellow Christian. False statements such as these are just designed as a foolish distraction to try and discredit the beauty of the story of The Bible.” – (http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2013/03/18/bible-creators-history-channel-deny-show-satan-resembles-president-obama/)

Okay, if I give them the benefit of the doubt, Mehdi Ouzaani may not have been chosen because he looks like the president. But, how did they not notice his transformation after make-up (see photo below)? Also, regardless of what he played in the past, why did his skin become so dark?

Sounds like the old O.J. Simpson Newsweek cover.

As a matter of fact, why didn’t Mehdi Ouzaani play Jesus?

Paul says in Philippians 2:2-4

2 Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

Sometimes we as Christians just assume that everyone thinks and sees the world as we do, but anyone who is part of the non-dominant people group in any region can attest that this is not true. We need to ask, “Is this offensive, does this offend the people I’m trying to reach?” That’s not being “PC”, that’s having the mind of Christ and it also builds up unity in The Church.

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Would the public accept this "Jesus"?

Would the public accept this “Jesus”?

But what do you think?

Is this a big deal about nothing? Let us know in the comments below!

Anyone remember this one?

Anyone remember this one?

CSD Review: The Bible On History Channel – When Keeping It Real Goes Wrong

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I remember my college professor making the point that the problem with visual representations “based on facts” is that they do not become “based on”, but “facts” when introduced to a wider audience. With this thought in mind, I offer many criticisms of The Bible that is airing on the History Channel up until Resurrection Sunday.

Why am I being critical? Because this series is being aimed right at families, churches (as you can see in the photo above), and non-Christians since it’s being featured on the History Channel. As a fan of the channel, I’m even a bit trusting on the facts, so I’m going to expect them to do a good job on this one since we all have the script right?

I watched episode one, and I just had a chance to catch up on episode two just in time before three airs. While I thought about writing about one, two had me punching the keys on the computer.

So, here we go…

Not enough time spent on creation and the fall of man.

The entire book is based on the events in Genesis 1-3, so I think much more time should have been spent here.

I’m not against “historical realistic” violence if you will, as Schindler’s List, Roots, and other realistic portrayals of what mankind has done to one another is something I generally do not shield from my children.

The Bible itself does not do that. That said, the violence in this flick is not in The Bible! Where Scripture gives us details, put them in, but why add violence to accounts where the Bible is silent? Secondly, you know families are going to be watching this together, so why make it so graphic? Trust me, when I see someone’s head being held by a guy then his sword goes across his neck, I don’t need blood to convince me that he’s being killed. My kids get the message as well. So it is earning its TV14 rating, but for the wrong reasons in my opinion.

Next, the racial element.

I think our friends over at Answers In Genesis summarize my next point best:

“The various subgroups we see around the world today remain virtually identical genetically to each other except for superficial, on-the-surface physical traits like skin shade and type of eyelids. Just as the exhibit concluded that there is really only one race, the human race, it corresponds to the biblical teaching that we are all of “one blood” (Acts 17:26). Scripture distinguishes people by tribal or national groupings, not by skin color or physical appearance. Clearly, though, there are groups of people who have certain features (e.g., skin shade) in common, which distinguish them from other groups. We prefer, though, to call these “people groups” rather than “races.” Using the words people groups also helps avoid the evolutionary baggage often associated with the word race.” (http://www.answersingenesis.org/articles/2009/01/19/race-around-the-nation)

Therefore, if the program is trying to portray this 21st century realism, why still stick with the same old European-looking protagonist in most of the Biblical stories? Then, the one darker-skinned person who is featured is Samson, who is big, black, and loves Philistine (white) women?

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Oh yea, he has a bit of an anger problem as well. This guy isn’t exactly Sidney Poitier in Guess Who’s Coming To Dinner. I wouldn’t want Samson around my daughter either! But of all the stories to put in a darker-skinned actor, why choose and mold one into some Old Testament Jungle Fever tale? Sometimes I have to wonder if any of these shows have anyone from another people-group as advisors or in decision-making positions. While the series didn’t say, “This is a tale about an interracial relationship”, that’s exactly the subplot. If it were not, and all of these people were from the same region, why not make the Philistines from a darker-skinned people group as well? Now you completely remove the racial element from the story…just like the Bible does.

If they would've asked LeBron, he would've told that brotha who played Samson, "Don't do it man, I took some heat for this one!

If they would’ve asked LeBron, he would’ve told that brotha who played Samson, “Don’t do it man, I took some heat for this one!

Oh yes, speaking of Samson and “race”. I read on one blog where the person asked, “Why did Samson have to be black?” Sounds like we both asked the same question, but perhaps for completely different reasons. Sounds like their contention is that Burnett made Samson “black” when historically he was not, and that was not “right”. So to that kind of reasoning I say…

Since we do not know what the color of Jesus was, why do we still have the same blond-haired blue-eyed handsome white guy? Charles D. Hackett, director of Episcopal studies at the Candler School of Theology in Atlanta told Popular Mechanics, “The fact that he probably looked a great deal more like a darker-skinned Semite than westerners are used to seeing him pictured is a reminder of his universality, and [it is] a reminder of our tendency to sinfully (emphasis mine) appropriate him in the service of our cultural values.”

Perhaps more Western movies portraying Jesus should put a disclaimer like my daughter did last week

Perhaps more Western movies portraying Jesus should put a disclaimer like my daughter did last week

Why did I highlight sinfully? Because the Western image of Jesus is idolatry for many, as any image of Christ does not fit that image is considered untrue. To show anything else in this country would be met with, “That’s not Jesus!”

Well, show me his actual picture and change my mind.

Now I understand why God said,

“You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth.”
(Exodus 20:4 ESV)

I’m sure this issue will come up again when they actually show “Jesus”.

– Wait, did they just say that it was Samuel’s sons that were sinning before the Lord? What about, 1 Samuel 3?

12 On that day I will fulfill against Eli all that I have spoken concerning his house, from beginning to end. 13 And I declare to him that I am about to punish his house forever, for the iniquity that he knew, because his sons were blaspheming God,[a] and he did not restrain them.

 

Come on folks, you at least have to get the people in the story right, we all have the script! If I heard or saw that one wrong, somebody please let me know.

Okay, that’s all for now. I’ll be checking the other episodes just for entertainment purposes alone. But so far, I’ve been greatly disappointed and I expect better. I don’t agree with Mel Gibson theologically (or personally on many issues as I would later find out), but when he made The Passion, he got it right. I was hoping Mark Burnett’s The Bible would come close and in my opinion, he’s headed in the opposite direction. I expected certain portrayals in 1966 when The Bible: In The Beginning was released, as this was a much different country. But overall, at this point, I’d say it was a much better movie than this longer 2013 version.

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Good Dads and Bad Dads in TV Ads

Check out this blog post by the National Fatherhood Initiative.

So true, so true, so true!

The first ad reminds me of the importance I placed upon spending “just 15 minutes” found here. So what do you think?

Are guys just being overly sensitive?

My wife hates watching TV with me because whenever I see a commercial depicting fathers in a negative light, I go off on the same rant. So, she hears this rant almost nightly.

But to be fair to the Madison Avenue crowd, there are certainly lots of commercials showing dads in a positive, or at least realistic, light (note: showing dads acting like childish idiots is not realistic, nor is it helpful). In fact, NFI has given the Fatherhood Award™ to several of these companies, including Google, Subaru, and many more.

In the spirit of being fair and balanced, here is one good and one bad example of current TV ads depicting dads.

The good

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjTQV6CjAPE

As a baseball fan, former Little Leaguer (where my dad was my coach for several years), and high school player, I love this ad.

Some may argue that it is another ad showing a dad looking pretty dumb, but my problem is not so much with “dumbness,” but with ads that are not realistic. This one is. Not everyone can throw a baseball well. What matters is that this guy is so sincere, and he’s spending time with his son, one on one.

Most importantly, the ad does such a great job of telling a realistic and touching story. Look closely and you can see that the dad is still wearing his work clothes. He pulled into the driveway from work and his son was waiting for him in the front yard wanting to play catch. And he started playing with him right there – he didn’t even go inside to change his clothes! You can almost hear the kid saying, “Dad, dad! Let’s play catch!” And he, being the loving dad he is, dropped everything and started playing, despite his obvious lack of skills or comfortable clothes.

Humor, storytelling, and a positive message about fathers – this ad has it all. As opposed to this ad…

The bad

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y12IVfOKgxA

In contrast to the one above, this ad is not realistic. I do not know a single dad who would be this negligent and uncaring. Nor would a dad be “bought” so easily with the promise of food that was probably purchased with his own money. I also hate the recurring commercial theme of “if it weren’t for moms, American households would be bastions of chaos and permissiveness.” One could counter that the ad was “bending the truth” for a comical effect – but so was the above ad, and it was great and heartwarming and realistic. Again, note to commercial producers: you don’t have to make men and dads look like idiots in order to make funny ads. Frankly, I think it is lazy writers falling back on stereotypes who are making these kinds of commercials. The non-lazy ones are making gems like the VW ad above.

To be fair to Kraft, they are a sponsor of the upcoming Dad 2.0 Summit, so clearly they are trying to make a genuine effort to reach out to fathers. But with ads like this (and it is only one in a series of similarly bad ads), I don’t think they are going to have as much success as they’d like. To be sure, if they want to work with NFI, we would need to have a serious discussion about what they really think about fathers given the mocking nature of their ad campaign.

Have you seen any good fatherhood commercials lately? How about bad ones? Let us know.”

Meet Shawty Lo and His 10 Baby Mommas…Coming Soon On Oxygen

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My man Earl Ofari Hutchinson wrote a book called The Assassination of the Black Male Image. While many seem to believe that many African-American men are just being hypersensitive and race-baiting when this topic comes up, I find it hard to argue with the images put out there by the media for all the world to see about black men.

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We all know that every people group has their “dark side” and the money to be made through reality TV shows mean that even the dominate group gets exposed with shows like Honey Boo Boo. However, for every “Honey Boo Boo”, there are shows like “The Bachelor” showing a rich and handsome prince having his pick of numerous dainty-damsels. African-American’s get Flavor Flav and Ray J. complete with ladies that…well…lets just say they appear to never have had a father in any stage of their lives.

Now the dominate culture has polygamous Kody Brown, who stars on TLC’s hit, “Sister Wives”. The show displays a loving guy who is just living a normal life with his four wives and 28 children.

What image is put on TV showing the African-American male?

Shawty-Lo and ten mother’s of his children, aka “baby mommas”.

I was hoping this is a joke, but after reading the article below and the accompanying video on the website (parental discretion is advised if you choose to watch the video), I’m afraid it is not. It just appears to be another project that gets the green-light from Hollywood because it fits into every stereotype about African-American men, women, and children.

Somehow, I don’t think they would want to do a show on my Christian, homeschooling, cross-cultural family (interracial to use the inaccurate term). No, black people and white people don’t get along like that and that’s not compelling TV.

But let me give some CSD advice to Shawty Lo (actually, I have a lot of advice I’d like to give him):

Do your people group a favor. If you want to do a reality show, why don’t you marry all those women and have more kids so we can at least say you’re the black Kody and that you’re trying to be a good dad and husband. While I’m not down with polygamy, that’s much more palatable and a greater ambition. Because right now, you need to have that “Dave Chappelle moment” where you realize that the people putting together that show and hyping up your antics are not laughing with you, but laughing at you.

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…and likely millions of others will be doing the same at you, your girls, and your children.

At least think about your kids, because in the world of Google and Youtube, what you and the mothers are doing in front of the camera will live long after you are gone, and one day your children will have to live with the consequences. They may not be willing to sellout for fame and money like momma and daddy did, at least I sure hope not.

Oh yea, check out the podcast that I did with J-Sizzle, as we discussed what being a real father is all about: here.

“Someone at the Oxygen network has truly scrapped the bottom of the barrel for this one!

The cable network has announced the production of a new one-hour special, “All My Babies’ Mamas,” which features the day-to-day drama-filled shenanigans of Atlanta rapper Shawty Lo (pictured), his 10 baby mamas and their army of 11 children, reports TV By the Numbers.

The one-hit wonder rapper and G-Unit member, whose actual name is Carlos Walker, is surrounded by the women he bedded as well as their offspring. The project focuses on how everyone is vying for the attention of the homestead’s head honcho (who, by the way ain’t nothing at all to look at) and anti-birth control poster child.

Each baby mama has an eye-catching title such as the ‘First Lady E’Creia,’ who handles Lo’s finances and who was actually engaged to him at one point after he already had three children. Then there’s Angela, the “Fighter Baby Mama,” Amanda, the “Jealous Baby Mama,” Sujuan, the “Wanna-be Bougie Baby Mama” and Tamara, the “No-Drama Baby Mama.”

(I know, the names take “ratchet monikers” to another level.) 

Lo, 36, also has a 19-year-old girlfriend, Ashlin, who is also featured on the show and who claims to be madly in love with him. The clueless young woman met Lo when he already had 10 children and is actually a year younger than his oldest child. My guess is that she, too, will soon make her shameful announcement of a bun in the oven so that Lo will have an even dozen.

The special, which in no way can be likened to the 60′s classic “The Brady Bunch,” is set to air in spring 2013. And, if the one-hour show gets green-lighted into an actual series, I for one, will cancel any connection to Oxygen that I agreed to with my cable installer!”

Source: http://newsone.com/2113581/shawty-lo-all-my-babies-mamas-oxygen-reality-show/